Pop Music For Funerals 0

pop music for funerals

Music is a great way to evoke feelings and memories attached to a particular time, place or person and is often used to personalise funerals, to ensure the service is relevant to the deceased and to represent something of their life. For those who have grown up with it, no genre of music is more evocative of good times than pop music. Here we take a look at nine of the best pieces of pop music for funerals and try to suggest a song for every type of individual or service. Below you’ll find three tearjerkers, three more uplifting pieces, and three alternative, funnier examples of pop music for funerals. Feel free to comment below with any songs that we’ve missed out.

 

Three tearjerkers

Over the Rainbow – Eva Cassidy

Eva Cassidy’s haunting vocals and beautifully minimal guitar playing make for an extremely emotional experience when it’s played at funerals. This magnificent cover has become an increasingly popular choice of funeral music in recent years and is sure to remain one for the foreseeable future.

 

Nothing Compares to You – Sinead O’Connor

If you really want to emphasise the unique role the deceased played in the lives of those mourners gathered at the service, there’s no better choice than O’Connor’s classic, Nothing Compares To You.

 

Wish You Were Here – Pink Floyd

If the deceased’s interest in music veered away from traditional pop tracks towards prog or rock, Wish You Were Here might prove a good option for the funeral. This sad song, backed by wonderful instrumentalists, expresses exactly what many will be thinking and feeling as they gather together to mourn their loss.

 

Three uplifting tracks

My Way – Frank Sinatra

A fitting tribute to anyone who made the most of the short time we’re allotted on this planet, Sinatra’s My Way is an uplifting track that ensures the focus of the funeral service is on the deceased’s life and not their death.

 

You’ll Never Walk Alone – Gerry and the Pacemakers

Though it may be heavily associated with Liverpool FC and its supporters, this song sends out a positive message of companionship, reassurance and unity at a time when these qualities are desperately needed.

 

See You Again – Wiz Khalifa

This modern entry was written for the Fast and the Furious franchise as a tribute to its protagonist and star, Paul Walker, upon his death in 2015. Unlike a number of other contemporary tracks popular at funerals, it tries hard to ensure its message is an uplifting one.

 

Three for a laugh

Always Look on the Bright Side of Life – Eric Idle

Most people will know this as the song that closes the classic Monty Python film Life of Brian, but it’s also quickly becoming a firm favourite among those hoping to get a few chuckles out of those gathered at a memorial service. It also serves as a brilliant reminder to stay positive at a time when it can be difficult to do so.

 

Smoke Gets in Your Eyes – The Platters

If you’ve decided on cremation and want to bring a little humour to what would otherwise be a serious and sombre day, there’s possibly no better choice of music than The Platter’s Smoke Gets In Your Eyes. Though some may consider it to be overstepping the mark somewhat, it can also help to raise a smile among those present at the service.

 

Going Deeper Underground – Jamiroquai

A good choice for those that are going to be buried, Jamiroquai’s funky, disco-infused track will go down a storm among those who enjoy a little black humour.

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Baptist Funeral Customs 0

Baptist Funeral Customs

The Baptist churches have their origins in the reformation movement in Europe. Baptism spread from Amsterdam to England and then across the Atlantic Ocean to the United States, where the largest Baptist congregations are now based.

The fundamental principle on which Baptism differentiates itself from other Christian churches is ‘believer’s baptism’. Whereas other parts of the Christian faith baptise infants at a very young age, Baptists believe that you need to be able to personally affirm your faith if the process is to hold any spiritual significance. Here, we take a look at the beliefs, customs and traditions surrounding Baptist funerals.

 

Baptist beliefs

There is great variety in tradition, custom and belief among Baptists and this fact is reflected in Baptist funerals. While all Baptists are joined in the belief that only those who profess their faith in Jesus Christ should be baptised, other theological differences aren’t as divisive as in other sects of the Christian faith. This means funeral services can be personalised to a greater extent to reflect the life and opinions of the deceased. It also means there are diverse opinions on what death means. However, most Baptists believe that those people with faith in Jesus Christ will find salvation in him and go on to live forever by his side in heaven.

 

Baptist funeral customs

Diversity of belief between Baptist congregations means that some funerals will be joyous celebrations, while others will be more sombre affairs. The first step in organising a Baptist funeral is contacting the local deacon or pastor. They will assist in organising the funeral and ensure everything is as it should be.

Baptist Funeral CustomsA viewing service is common amongst Baptist congregations. This gives friends and family the opportunity to pay their respects and usually takes place a day or two before the funeral. The funeral itself is led by the local deacon or pastor. Often the casket is closed at the beginning of the service. In many cases, the service and readings will focus on the power of God and His role within everyone’s lives. It’s not unusual for there to be little said about the deceased’s life. Music and the reading of scripture both play an important part in Baptist funerals and both religious and popular music may be heard.

Once the service is complete, it is traditional for prayers to be said and scripture read by the grave site. Once the coffin has been lowered into the ground, the mourners often disperse and reconvene at a reception at the family home, the church or a public space. Food is sometimes provided and it’s usual for mourners to contribute to the meal.

 

Baptist Funeral etiquette and other customs

Traditionally, mourners are expected to dress respectfully in black and clothes that reveal too much skin are not considered appropriate. However, some families may ask mourners to dress in brightly coloured clothes in honour of the deceased. Sending flowers to the family of the deceased is also common, although individuals may be asked to donate to charity instead.

Catholic Funeral Customs 0

catholic funeral customs

The Catholic Church is one of oldest religious institutions in the world and boasts a worldwide following of around 1.29 billion people. It has had a major impact on western thought, society, culture and politics, and has shaped the way many individuals think about death. Here, we take a look at the religion’s beliefs concerning death and explore the Catholic funeral customs.

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Catholic beliefs

Catholics believe that each person’s soul is immortal and that, at the moment of death, the body and soul separate. While the body, devoid of the spirit that animated it, begins to decompose, the soul is taken to be judged by God. It is then either granted eternal life in Heaven or damned to an eternity in Hell.

However, not all of those granted access to Heaven are quite ready to pass through the pearly gates. Those who have lived a just enough life to reach Heaven but that are still due punishment for some as yet accounted for sin, spend time in Purgatory. Purgatory is a temporary state that purges the soul of sin and fully prepares an individual for Heaven.

catholic funeral customs

Catholic funeral customs

Catholicism maintains its own distinct traditions that differentiate it from other Christian traditions. When death is imminent, a priest is usually called to administer the dying person’s last rites. Traditionally, there are three stages to a Catholic funeral. The vigil – where friends and family gather to watch over the deceased’s body or cremated ashes and pray that their soul reaches heaven. The funeral mass – which takes place at the church and involves the casket or urn being carried to the front of the church and a memorial service led by the local priest. Finally, there is the burial – where the remains of the deceased are taken to their burial place and a priest commits them to the Earth.

Etiquette and other customs

catholic funeral customs

Catholicism is a large and widespread religion that can differ from region to region and that is also open to doctrinal differences. This means that what’s acceptable in a Catholic funeral on one occasion, may not be on another. For instance, in some Catholic communities, cremation is not acceptable. However, in recent years, Catholic religious authorities have shifted their position and many churches won’t have a problem with cremation.

The Catholic Church holds no objection to organ donation, as mainstream religious doctrine supports the idea that once brain function ceases, the soul has departed the body. Likewise, embalming the deceased’s body is common practice if a vigil is to be held and the Church is in no way opposed to embalming.

As a non-Catholic attending a Catholic funeral, you can take part in the entire ceremony but won’t be expected to take Holy Communion, as it’s a practice reserved for those of Catholic faith. After the funeral service, it is common practice for a less formal memorial event to take place at a relative’s home, a pub or another local venue. However, such an event is not a formal part of the service and not all Catholic funerals will end with one.